The question women have been pondering for ages; how to make a man fall in love? Although at times it seems up to fate (and this definitely is part of it), there are steps a woman can take to gain a man's affection and mistakes she can make to lose a man's affections too.

If you want a man to fall in love with you the first thing you must understand is that there's a lid for every pot. In other words there's someone out there just right for you. Once you realize this it's easier to let go of lost loves; you'll know he just wasn't the one.

When you think you've found a potential great mate for yourself and you want him to fall madly in love with you there are a few things you should do and some things to avoid doing:

1) Start out by keeping it real. That means you must be yourself. Don't agree with everything he says and like the same things he likes; if you do great, but if you feel the opposite about some topics say so. A man doesn't really want a woman who will do everything he wants and agree with him all the time. That kind of man is domineering and not one worthy of a relationship with you. Just make sure that when you do have differences you aren't rude or argumentative about it; just stick with your beliefs and be confident in yourself. Say what you mean, mean what you say and say it with love and kindness.

2) Mystery (to some extent) is a great tool to grab a man's attention and keep them interested (especially with the man who's always after the next adventure.) Keep parts of yourself secret; move slowly and reveal yourself in bits and pieces. Don't always be available every time he wants to see you. When you're not available he'll know that you have your own life and if you become further involved you won't smother him and demand all of his time. A smothering, demanding, and jealous woman is a real turn off for men and deadly for true love.

3) Maintain and nurture your own friendships, hobbies, beliefs and interests. Men don't want to smothered and they want to know that when they go away with the guys for the weekend you won't be desperately missing them; calling or texting them every day. Keeping your own life is way to keep your own happiness and win the love of a man every time.

4) Laugh! Having and showing your sense of humor is something guys love. Don't be afraid to laugh at his jokes (even if they really aren't that funny) or even tell some of your own jokes. Most of all be able to laugh at yourself when you say the wrong thing or fall down the steps. After all being able to laugh through life is one of the most important skills; if the man you're after is going to fall in love with you and be with you for years to come he's going to want to make sure you can laugh at yourself and with him.

There are many more ways to win a man's love. The above are four of the most important first steps to making a man fall in love with you. Remember, if the man isn't interested he isn't the one for you; using these tips will work when the right man comes along. Be patient and believe in yourself!

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