Aquarius men are known to be friendly, honest and loyal as well as independent and intellectual. Along with being great humanitarians, these men are original in taste and style also. However, the Aquarius man is also perverse and unemotional at times as well as detached and unpredictable. These traits tend to make this sun sign hard to fall in love with.
To make this man love you, it is best to be sheltered with your feelings and not say too much about how you really feel about him. Keep him wondering about how you feel, and this will match his detached and unemotional status. This does not mean that you have to be cold, but generally you have to get through the mental guard that this type of man puts up. He may have been hurt before, so you must show that you can be nurturing, but do not go overboard. He will let you know when he needs your companionship so do not push.
Spending time with him can be a way of making him love you. Many Aquarius men feel as though they miss the boat when it comes to love. This is due to the fact that many push people away with their aloofness, so it is best to let him know that you are always going to be there for him. With this sun sign, the best things you can do to make him fall in love with you are verbal and not physical. He will be a very sexual person, as so you should be if you plan to keep him around. It is always best to plan your visits ahead of time with him, because he will enjoy having time to himself but also loves planning things ahead.
Find out the cause he is the most passionate about, and become his biggest fan. Help him to fight for his cause, and be available whenever possible. He will make large promises to you, but it is best that you do things out of the ordinary to keep his interests. To make him love you, you will have to show him you are willing to stand by his side regardless of the situation, so be ready for anything and ride it out. He will love you eventually in his own time, as long as you stand by him and show him there are things in the future between you. Planning and talking about your future together often will help guide him in this direction.